Your local chapter is https://sincitybmwcca.com/ Click the events link, shows a number of things scheduled - March 16th is next up, sound like Gears & Grinds is a Cars n' Coffee type get--together. https://www.facebook.com/sincitybmwcca I'd say try emailing and calling your chapter president or other locals (or post on facebook) to see what they can tell you about local get-togethers, hopefully something's happening soon!
